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Child care parent contracts part 2: how do I enforce the child care parent contract?

Learn how to manage the challenges of enforcing your child care parent contract. 

Make sure everyone understands the contract 

A contract only works if everyone understands it. Share the contract with families and staff so they know what's included and what's expected.

Review the contract terms with new families so they can ask clarifying questions and clear up any confusion. Make sure you have signed copies of the child care parent contract for every child in your care and that families have a fully signed copy as well. The contract should say that families have read and understood it when they signed.

Train staff on program rules, challenges, best practices, and contract updates. Think about having staff sign an acknowledgement that they read the contract and agree to it. This shows that they understand and agree, which promotes consistency and accountability. 

If someone breaks the contract 

If a family has violated the terms of your contract, consider the following:

  • Review the contract: Confirm the terms of the contract were actually violated.
  • Discuss the violation: Discuss the violation with the family and try to reach a solution.
  • Document the violation: Keep notes of all conversations or interactions about the violation, including dates and times of conversations, what was said, and any agreements made.
  • Consider mediation: Mediation may be an option if the violation can't be solved by talking it out.
  • End the contract if violations continue: It's a hard choice, but sometimes you have to end the contract with a family.
  • Talk to a lawyer if needed: If you still have issues after trying to solve things, you may need to talk to a lawyer.

Remember, every situation is different. The steps you take depend on the violation. If you're not sure what to do, it's always a good idea to consult with a lawyer or other legal professional. 

How to have difficult conversations with a parent or guardian 

Having difficult conversations can be stressful and intimidating. It's important to take a proactive resolve the situation. Here are some tips:  

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Listen and be respectful

Try to understand their point of view and be sympathetic to their position.

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Clarify expectations

Remind them of the child care parent contract, what's expected, and why.

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Provide solutions

Work together to find a solution that works for both of you, if possible.

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Set boundaries

If the conversation gets too heated, take a break and come back to it when everyone is calmer.

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Stay calm and professional

Maintain a positive and encouraging attitude. 

Ending a contract 

If you need to end a child care parent contract, having a plan is important. Your plan should outline the steps to take to end the contract in a fair and polite manner. 

Here are some things to consider when terminating a contract:

  • Review the contract: Make sure you are acting in accordance with your contract termination policy.
  • Inform the family in writing: The notice should include explain why you're ending the contract, what contract term was violated, your attempts to fix the issue, the decision to end the contract, and the effective date.
  • Give enough notice: If possible, give the family time to make alternate arrangements for the care of their child.
  • Return their belongings: If the family has any belongings at the child care program, make arrangements for their return.
  • Return payments, if needed: If you received payments in advance for child care services you won't provide, reimburse them.
  • Follow the law: Make sure that all laws and regulations related to the ending child care services are followed.

It's worth it to have solid contract from the start. Even though you may encounter issues, a child care parent contract sets clear expectations and helps avoid misunderstandings and issues later on.  

Disclaimer: 

The information contained here is for educational purposes only and is not intended to constitute legal, tax, or financial advice.